Change is one of the steepest slopes we climb. It means going against a lifelong pattern.
If you have appetite for change about a brother or sister, the light bulb has gone off
about your old sibling relationship.
Even if they have a sibling “I Hate You” story, many siblings believe that their brother or sister is important enough to try to get to the bottom of their angry or sad feelings. Siblings mean so much because they share a sameness that can give us a feeling of comfort. If we are blood siblings, we come from the same gene pool. This sometimes gives us an inner feeling of unity. This common DNA can symbolize the naturalness and rightness of genetic bonds. That’s why genealogy is so important to some of us. Wouldn’t you think about changing your, sibling , “ I Hate You Story.”
Siblings can share class and race or the same cultural heritage. You can brag that your family is from the same upper class that knows what to do with all the silver next to the plates when you sit down to eat. Or you can be proud that you and your siblings share the same racial background, such as African American or Hmong. You can say your family is from the same cultural region of the world. For instance, you are all Italian so your family makes the best pasta dish, or your family is Japanese so you all honor elders.